As if his slue of extra-marital affairs wasn't enough to enrage Sandra, he's surely crossed the line by spilling all their juicy details to the world. James, a motorcyle builder, apparently "didn't warn her about the book at all" and she's super uncomfortable with everyone knowing the deets about his multiple ladies-in-waiting. A source says she is "devastated" and has insisted there is no longer a possibility of friendship for the two.
James is off happily engaged to his future (and fourth) wife, Kat Von D, a tattoo artist, while Sandra is busy being a mom to adopted son Louis -- and also still has a relationship with James' kids Chandler and Jesse Jr.